Why You Must Gain Control Of Your Jealousy

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Finding out you've been cheated on is like being hit by a freak storm: One minute the sky is blue and clear; the next minute, your relationship has been reduced to acres of debris.
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What Harris did "wrong" was not confront the ticking time bomb that her jealousy had become. It had so thoroughly distorted her moral compass and depleted her self-esteem that once she eliminated Tarnower,[url=http://cheapsoccercleatsonlinestore.blogspot.com/][b]cheap soccer cleats store[/url], suicide became a moot issue.
You can't survive an affair if you can't manage your jealousy and your revenge fantasies. Go ahead and think about them, even write them out. But then you must also decide to refuse to take them any further than that. You'll end up being as much a villain as your cheating partner or spouse,[url=http://monclerjacketsuk.albirank.net/][b]Moncler Outlet Online Store UK Cheap Moncler Jackets Coats Sale[/b][/url], and it doesn't really solve your problem,[url=http://cheapsoccercleatswithfreeshipping.webmium.com/][b]http://cheapsoccercleatswithfreeshipping.webmium.com/[/b][/url], does it? After all, the point of learning how to survive an affair is to get to a place where you can make decisions about the future of your relationship based on what your brain and heart are telling you, not your emotions.
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