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Affairs and Relationships
As an outpatient psychologist who has been practicing twenty-five years,
I run across eight conditions, over and over. They range from anxiety and
depression, work problems, kid behavior problems, substance ab/use, addiction
issues, and of course, relationships. One of the most egregious affronts to
on-going relationships is an affair.
There is a lot of literature on affairs already on the market, most of
which concentrates on what the partner is not getting at home, therefore
strays to get elsewhere. While this is relevant, it fails to explain the
real dynamics underlying infidelity.
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is Novelty, which is characterized by having a lot of fun. Things are new,
fresh and exciting, hence engaging. We typically stay up all night talking,
going to new movies and restaurants together, and of course, having good sex.
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certainty and stability of predictability; that is, we can bank on having a
significant other in our lives. But with stability comes loss of novelty.
This is the time when we really begin to see our partners for who they are,
good or bad. This is the time when the occasional lull in excitement makes
a deeper impression.
But for most of us, the relationship progresses into stage three. This
is commitment made manifest. This is signaled by engagement or marriage,
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together (cars, houses), setting up budgets and schedules that maintenance our things, etc. We really have to get along during this stage, especially if children come along (the "great challenge" to marriage).
The first two stages typically last about six months. The third stage
can last a lifetime, unless it goes Boom, in which case it can last a week.
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The need for novelty is not the only reason couples "stray." In the
literature, there are at least six major reasons and another ten minor ones.
The underlying dynamics of choosing to cheat is really the problem in all of
these areas. These boil down to personality and impulse control issues, which form what I call Negative Loops.
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This is a very broad outline of some of the dynamics to watch out for in
relationships where there is infidelity. It covers relationship stages, one
aspect of change in the relationship (novelty), one negative loop (patterns of estructive interaction between the partners), and one very maladaptive behavior (acting out with a person outside the relationship. For more in-depth information on these and why relationships fail in general, see the author's ebook.
-Dr. Griggs

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