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Here are four Adler rules for listening well.
1. Listening is not a passive activity. Unless your mind is involved as well as your ear, you aren't really hearing the other person.
2. Listen for key words and ideas. Reach out and catch what is in the mind of the speaker � just as the catcher in a baseball game sometimes has to reach out for the ball the pitcher has [url=http://www.orlando-apts.com/nfljerseys/]nfl jerseys[/url] just thrown.
3. Don't be distracted by how the person speaks or unusual mannerisms. Try to understand what the speaker's intentions are. What is he or she trying to communicate to you?
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Adapted from Hal Gieseking's book "Reinvent Yourself." Free preview chapters on
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